Prior to moving to Oregon and becoming a marriage and family therapist/counselor, I worked for ten years as a lawyer in California, practicing primarily family law. While I was drawn to the critical thinking and analysis of the law, I have long been captivated by human and social development. Ultimately, I found that I thrive in counseling practice that is rooted in compassion and social responsiveness.
I am a child of immigrant Filipino parents and was raised in the Catholic faith. I spent some time growing up in the Philippines, living in Saudi Arabia, and acculturating to the US. Through education and pooling of family resources, I benefit from the privilege of higher education and socioeconomic status. I identify as a cisgendered, heterosexual, non-disabled, Filipina-American, and regard myself as spiritual. I am bicultural and a receptive bilingual in my native language, Tagalog.
These experiences have informed and expanded my worldview. I recognize my positionality in some ways limit my view, and in other ways, it allows me to relate on a deeper level. I understand the impact of social inequities, especially as it relates to class, gender and race. I also understand the complexity of navigating different cultures and the challenges of finding belonging at home or in the workplace while being true to your identities. I can relate to relational trauma as it shows up in emotional disconnection, especially in the demise of significant relationships. I bring these unique understandings to the therapeutic space and it is through these lenses with humility in which I offer support and assistance to my clients.
I see my purpose and passion as being of service to others and to compassionately co-create change that fosters equitable relationships, community, and harmony. As a relational therapist, I serve adult couples/partners, families and individuals. In leaning towards a social justice orientation, I take into consideration the impact of social context (i.e. systems of oppression) in the manner we relate to ourselves, to others and the world around us. I have a special interest in working with interracial or multi-ethnic/cultural relationships. I am grounded in systems theory, being trauma-informed, and attachment theory. I apply Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) in working with couples and families. I have completed additional EFT training through the Portland Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy (PCEFT) EFT Externship and Core Skills. I have further completed Part I and Part II, including the supervised practicum and group consultation requirements, of an EMDRIA-approved training for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy.
I integrate principles of sensorimotor psychotherapy, IFS, cultural somatics, compassion focused therapy, and neuroscience with clients. I also incorporate mindfulness and self-compassion into my work.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#T2479) and Licensed Professional Counselor (#C7592). I have also been certified by the National Board for Certified Counselors as a National Certified Counselor.
As part of my ongoing learning, I am currently deepening my understanding of working with couples and family systems through a doctorate program and I plan to center my research on supporting interracial/interethnic, multicultural/multiethnic partners in relationship. It is my belief that one path to empowerment is knowledge.
I welcome all identities to my practice. If you would like to connect with me, please email counseling@concinnitytherapy.com or call 503.208.4687.
EDUCATION:
Antioch University New England (AUNE), Keene, NH
PhD student in Couple and Family Therapy – Ongoing
Master of Arts in Marriage, Couple, and Family Counseling – May 2020
George Fox University, Portland, OR
Juris Doctor – May 2006
New College of California, School of Law, San Francisco, CA
CERTIFICATION
AAMFT Certificate of Leadership, 2022
National Certified Counselor (NCC), 2021
200 Yoga Teacher Certification, Purusha Yoga School, 2013